Building the Nigeria We Dream Of Starts With Us
“Ask not what your country can do for you – ask what you can do for your country – John F. Kennedy, 1961
Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people.” — Proverbs 14:34
The Illusion of Entitlement
In Nigeria today, a spirit of entitlement has taken root. It’s subtle but widespread—the belief that because we are citizens, we are owed good roads, constant light, safety, healthcare, and justice. And we are. But the truth is this: entitlement without engagement is a deception. Yes, we are entitled to better governance. But expecting national transformation without personal responsibility is like expecting harvest where no seeds were sown. We cannot continue to demand change while refusing to be the change.
You Can’t Microwave a Nation
We often talk about “the system” as if it’s some detached beast. But the system is people. It is you and me. The corruption in high places didn’t fall from the sky—it started with the little compromises in low places. We cheat the queue, pad our invoices, pay for shortcuts, then wonder why Nigeria is broken.
“The price good men pay for indifference to public affairs is to be ruled by evil men.” — Plato
Entitlement makes us wait for miracles from above. But responsibility demands we get involved—in our businesses, offices, schools, and streets. The new Nigeria won’t be served to us on a silver platter. It will be built by deliberate Nigerians.
From Ranting to Rebuilding
It’s easier to rant than to rebuild. That’s why Twitter trends faster than transformer repairs. But what good is a tweet that doesn’t lead to action? What use is a protest that ends in apathy? We cannot keep tearing down without building up. Every curse on Nigeria that isn’t followed by a contribution to its healing is a missed opportunity. Every insult thrown at our leaders that isn’t matched with personal integrity is just noise.
“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” — Romans 12:21
David vs. Goliath: A Model of National Responsibility
Israel was stuck. Goliath mocked their destiny daily. And though soldiers stood armed and trained, none would move. Until David showed up—not in armor, but in purpose. His power wasn’t in position—it was in responsibility. He didn’t wait for a crown; he carried a cause.
“Is there not a cause?” — 1 Samuel 17:29
David didn’t fight in the name of Judah or for personal glory. He fought for Israel and the name of the Lord. That’s what Nigeria needs: men and women who show up—not because of title, tribe, or trend, but because the nation is worth it.
The Cookie Jar Syndrome: Why Selfishness Is Killing Our Future
Beyond courage, another disease is draining our destiny: selfishness.
The “Cookie Jar Syndrome” is a mindset where every opportunity, deal, or engagement is seen primarily through the lens of personal gain—often to the detriment of the common good. In this mentality, every negotiation, project, or contract becomes a personal cookie jar: What’s in it for me? Short-term profit overrides long-term purpose. Private interest eclipses public good. And because everyone is reaching for their own cookie, the jar eventually empties—leaving behind poverty, distrust, broken systems, and widespread cynicism.
“The moral test of government is how that government treats those who are in the dawn of life, the children; those who are in the twilight of life, the elderly; and those who are in the shadows of life, the sick, the needy and the handicapped.” — Hubert H. Humphrey
If Nigeria must be rebuilt, we must kill the cookie jar mentality. Ask yourself in every deal: Am I serving myself alone, or the greater good? Measure success not just by what you gain, but by what you build.
“A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children.” — Proverbs 13:22
Real nation builders aren’t cookie grabbers—they’re cookie bakers. They think: How can I make more for everyone, not just hoard for myself?
Practical Nation Building: What You Can Do Today
Let’s stop asking “Who will fix Nigeria?” and start asking, “What can I fix?” Because true national change starts with personal responsibility. It’s not about grand speeches or high office. It’s about ordinary people doing the extraordinary with what they have—where they are.
1. Excel in Your Assignment: Be a Model of Diligence
Whether you’re a teacher, tailor, techpreneur, trader, banker, or barber—do your work with integrity and excellence. Every job in Nigeria matters. Every assignment is a platform for transformation. When you deliver with consistency, fairness, and skill, you elevate standards.
Imagine a Nigeria where public servants don’t demand bribes, where artisans don’t cut corners, where professionals keep time, and contracts are honored without excuses. That’s not wishful thinking—it starts with you. Let excellence be your protest. Let diligence be your demonstration. Don’t just complain about the rot—be the reform.
2. Engage, Don’t Just Outrage: Call Your Reps. Send Feedback. Show Up
It’s not enough to vent on social media. The real work is in engaging the system with clarity and purpose. Nigeria’s democracy may be flawed, but it is still a system that can be influenced. Know your local government chairman, your House of Reps member, your senator. Write letters, emails, and petitions. Tag them publicly and privately. Join public hearings or town halls when they’re called. If they’re not, demand one. Support citizens and organizations that are monitoring budgets and demanding transparency. Ranting is reactive. Engagement is proactive.
3. Partner for Local Impact: Start Something. Invite Others
You don’t need to wait for the presidency to fix your neighborhood. Start small. Co-fund a borehole with your neighbors. Clean up the market with your youth group. Organize a food bank, library, or free lesson for kids in your area. Start a WhatsApp group to monitor local council projects. Use your church or mosque platform for civic education. The power of collaboration is that it multiplies influence. Where one person can reach ten, ten people can transform a community. The most powerful movements in history started small—with people who cared enough to act.
4. Raise Citizens, Not Cynics: Train Your Children in Values
One of the greatest tragedies in Nigeria is the normalization of dysfunction. Many children grow up learning how to “hustle” the system instead of fix it. That cycle must break—with you. Teach them honesty, responsibility, and empathy. Tell them stories of Nigerian heroes—not just of war, but of reform. Expose them to books, debates, and platforms that stretch their civic minds. Let them see you live with conviction, not convenience. Children don’t become nation builders by accident. They’re formed by intentional parents, mentors, and communities.
5. Live Like a Light: Let People See in Your Life What They Wish the Country Was
Be the Nigeria you dream of. Let your words and actions reflect the integrity, love, order, and honor that we want to see in our leaders. Don’t take bribes—or offer them. Keep promises. Respect time. Respect people, even when you disagree. Be the same person in public and in private.
“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden.” — Matthew 5:14
Let your life be a protest sign. Let it be a roadmap. Let it be evidence that Nigeria can work—because in your corner, it already does.
Voices Worth Emulating: From History to Now
In every generation, there are men and women who rise above apathy to shape nations. Nigeria’s story—though fraught with struggle—has always had builders worth learning from.
Historic Statesmen & Builders:
– Chief Obafemi Awolowo – Premier of the Western Region, visionary in education and infrastructure. “The children of the poor you fail to train will never let your children have peace.”
– Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe – First President of Nigeria. “The realization of human interdependence and unity in diversity must be the base of our political ideology.”
– Sir Ahmadu Bello – Sardauna of Sokoto, moral and administrative leader. “The mistake of 1914 has come to stay.”
– Tafawa Balewa – First Prime Minister, known for humility and diplomacy. “We must stand united before the world.”
Final Word: A Nation Is Not Given. It Is Made.
“Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord.” — Psalm 33:12
We cannot continue expecting without investing. A new Nigeria will not be delivered through bitterness, hashtags, or silence. It will come through deliberate men and women—builders, not complainers. Reformers, not spectators. People who refuse to fold their arms while Goliath mocks their destiny.
“Nigeria is not just ours to inherit. It is ours to build.”
So rise. In your field. In your family. In your faith.
Because you are not just entitled to a better Nigeria—You are responsible for making it happen.